![]() Because you are NOT matching their self-image. This is why someone with low self-esteem will push you away if you overdo the attention and adulation. What should grab your attention is how this is true no matter how healthy or harmful that self-image is. We are pulled toward people and situations that help keep our self-image alive and intact.Īnd we pay more attention to -and will accept more feedback from- things which mirror our own self-view. He calls it “Self Verification Theory” 1 and it is fascinating. This is according to Bill Swann, a professor of social psychology and personality psychology, at the University of Texas, Austin. It turns out we prefer to be seen by others the way we see ourselves. Attraction booster: Be a lion (not a sheep!). ![]() Re-attract your ex with invisible powers!.
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